Big Flirt

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fuckyeahchubbygirls:

Krystal, 19. Size 16.

These past two years have been hectic for me, but I’ve learned that there are a bunch of people who love me just the way I am. If they don’t have a problem with my weight, why should I?  I think I’m pretty cute for a chubby chick. =]

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daft-n-mau5:

Oh, you’re absolutely right. Just because some of us don’t prefer to be with girls who are rather heavy set (Or in other words, “curvy” or “fat”) that automatically makes us dogs. Because, you know, that’s all we are when it comes down to it. Mentally ill, disgusting, bone chasing dogs. 

None of us guys actually have brains. That’s obviously just a myth. And apparently none of us are allowed to know what we really want because when we go for it, we get labeled under the rest of what society thinks. 

Us guys are just way too offensive for having our own preferences / attractions. Granted a real man would never intentionally call a woman fat, obese, disgusting, huge, or worthless. Maybe that’s where this originated from. The fact that the guys you waste your time with have that mentality, so that clearly means all guys who don’t like curvy girls are douche bags. 

Oh, I’m sorry did I use the words “fat” and “obese” against you? Then why is it when I searched “curvy” (Obviously more socially acceptable) I got the exact same people’s results and images? It’s because you yourselves call yourselves fat or obese and attract that negative attention. 


So you mean to tell me since most of us wouldn’t actively pursue the one on the left, we have a mental problem? You mean to tell me you have the right to throw insults just because some of us don’t prefer to have a bigger girl? In my opinion, they’re both beautiful women. But that’s just my opinion. Would I go for the one on the left? No.

Why? Because that’s not my thing. I’m simply not attracted to the one on the left or bigger girls. That’s it! There’s no name calling involved, no demoralization, nothing. Doesn’t mean I’m going to judge a bigger girl by her appearance. 

But apparently since I wouldn’t go for the one on the left I’m automatically a disgusting human being because I have my own preference. Unfortunately enough though it’s the same preference society has to depict all over the media.

Here’s the thing girls, you have obviously all posted your opinions, thoughts, ramblings, insults, and have targeted guys for a great deal of time. Clearly you’re upset. But this goes both ways.


Here we have the obviously more appealing, slim, trimmed, toned guy. And we have the more heavy set guy on the right. So you mean to tell me all of you girls like the guy on the right? Because if not you’re just a mindless, disgusting part of society right?

Oh, I’m wrong? Well then why is it that you can label guys under every negative word in existence just because they wouldn’t go for a big girl but it’s totally okay for big guys to just stand by as girls constantly degrade them and drool over the Hollister Model look a like types.

Sorry, I just had to wipe my nose. I’m allergic to bullshit.

All you girls who’ve read this far know you prefer the one on the left, there’s no work around. Human beings are pretty much programmed to be attracted to aesthetics and since slimmer girls or slimmer guys are more visually appealing to some people, we’re always going to have this problem.

But is it really a problem?

A curvy girl wasn’t just born that way. Same thing with a curvy guy. And it’s definitely not something they can’t fix. Being “big” is a lifestyle choice. You have chosen to stay that size. You can’t blame someone else who’s smaller for being attracted to someone around their weight or size. The problem with people today is that everyone wants everything now rather than working for it. So instead of gradually sticking to your routine and goal of losing weight, you get demoralized and you give up.

That’s your own problem. You can’t blame anyone else but yourself.
Now don’t go off on me just yet. I’m not saying being heavy is a problem. To each their own. The problem resides within the people who,

1. Bitch about being big, but don’t do anything and they get on other people’s cases for trying to motivate them  or help them. So when said people get disappointed, they’re automatically the bad guy.
   
   
2. People (girls) who rant and rave about guys not being attracted to them because they’re big. Ever think it’s probably not just your size that makes you unattractive to them? Maybe its the fact that you explode whenever things don’t go your way. Perhaps you have an ugly personality.

That’s the problem. Not your size, not what people like or dislike, not what the media decides to plaster all over your TV or on billboards and magazines. 

Let’s face it, no girl would prefer to see the guy on the right plastered on a huge billboard. You all know you want the one on the left so just because guys would choose the girl on the right, doesn’t give you the right to insult every guy in existence.

Just as you are all sick and tired of seeing smaller girls getting more attention than the bigger ones, us guys are tired of seeing these lean mean monsters getting more attention than bigger (or smaller in this case) guys.

Humans are instinctive creatures. Conformity is a basic survival technique, so by default we’re all going to be attracted to the same things more or less. Trends last longer than they should. 

Not everyone likes the same thing. Not everyone believes the same thing. Not everyone wants the same thing. Enough with this “Curvy girls > Skinny girls” bull shit. Just because you weren’t chosen as a Victoria’s Secret model, doesn’t mean you’re ugly. Just because one guy said the wrong thing, doesn’t mean we all think the same way. 

Just as I’ve accepted the fact you’ve all been promoting bigger girls whilst insulting smaller girls or guys who prefer smaller girls, you’ll have to accept the fact that you’re in that position by your own choice, and that not everyone is going to be attracted to you. Just realize that the one’s who don’t appreciate you for who you are, aren’t worth it in the first place.

This is all coming from a guy who’s only 5’5” tall. I have an athletic build, and my body is toned. Does it look like the guy’s body on the left? Not quite. But I’ve worked for the way my body looks and I’m always going to be happy with it.

I have a brain, I have my own thoughts and opinions, I try my best not follow what society thinks is right and wrong. Personally, looks aren’t everything to me. I take the time to actually get to know the girl before I choose to pursue anything more than a friendship. 

I have dated both big girls and small girls. But because I prefer smaller girls, I’m a dog.

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